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Dealing with the Wintertime Blues

Do you feel depressed during the wintertime months? If so, you’re not alone. Studies show that up to 50% of the population experiences a change in mood during the wintertime1. There are many factors that combine to cause the wintertime blues. In this article I’ll discuss practical ways for you to deal with feeling blue during the winter months. I’ve split this article into four parts, Biological, Emotional, Relational, and Spiritual, so you can easily find specific action points that will help you to fight off the wintertime blues.

Biological

The Bible calls our bodies the temple of God in I Corinthians 3:16. The biological area deals with making sure the temple, your body, stays healthy with exercise, rest, and nutrition. If you’re like me, it’s easy to forget about taking care of your body when you’re feeling good. The only time I really get health conscious is when I’m sick. While this kind of health care is easy to do, it’s also the best way to forget to do the preventative things that can keep us healthy. During the winter many of our activities change. The time that you spent taking walks, riding bikes, mowing the yard, or working in the garden is now spent indoors. While the activities that you can do change in the winter, it is important that you remain active. Walking in a mall, taking the stairs instead of the elevator, and doing aerobics are just a few ways to stay physically active while staying indoors. Try to exercise at least 3 times a week for about 20 minutes at a time. If you’re not sure what kinds of exercises you should do or if you have a medical condition, talk to your family physician. Most people know that they should exercise, but don’t know what to do or when to do it. Setting aside time from your busy schedule to exercise has far reaching benefits. Not only will you feel better physically, but you will also notice that exercise helps to elevate your mood!

Because of the change in the length of days, your sleep/wake cycle can get thrown off. Many people start to oversleep during the winter months. If you are spending a lot of time sitting and not being physically active, your body will tend to slow down and you will begin to feel tired even after very little physical activity. Don’t let yourself fall into a pattern of taking naps in the late afternoon or early evening. Sleeping during the times that you would normally be awake can cause problems sleeping restfully through the night. Don’t let yourself oversleep in the morning either. Get up at regular times and have activities planned for your day.

Take time to notice what you’re eating. Now don’t get me wrong, I like chocolate chip cookies just as much as you do and I really don’t like peas. However, proper nutrition will also help to shield you from the wintertime blues. Many people think that the basic food groups consist of candy bars, cookies, ice cream, and soda pop! It’s easy to think about eating healthy vegetables when they are growing in the garden, however don’t forget to eat them when your garden is covered with snow. Many people grow accustomed to gaining weight over the winter. While some may joke that the weight they gain is insulation for the winter, it usually has more to do with lack of activity and a poor diet. Also, watch how much caffeine and sugar you are consuming. Using caffeine and sugar to help you temporarily gain energy eventually becomes self-defeating. Caffeine and sugar artificially produce energy while your body becomes less able to function without them. Making sure your diet is balanced will also help your immune system to fight other problems like colds and the flu.

A decrease in the amount of sunlight during the days is a major factor in the wintertime blues. Some people are especially sensitive to the decrease in sunlight and are prone to Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). It is important to note that experiencing a mood change during the wintertime doesn’t necessarily mean that you have Seasonal Affective Disorder. However, if you are feeling depressed for more than 2 weeks you should consult with your family physician or a Christian counselor for an evaluation.

The symptoms of Seasonal Affective Disorder include:

The best treatment for true SAD is to get more exposure to light. While for people with SAD this often requires the use of a light box, there are some simple things you can do to increase the amount of light you receive. Each day open your window shades and let in as much light as possible, especially in the morning. Whenever possible get outside to enjoy the fresh air and be in the sunlight. When you must be indoors, don’t sit in rooms with the lights off. Try to surround yourself in an environment that is full of light. Make your home feel colorful and alive. Paint dark colored walls a lighter color that reflects more light. Grow some indoor plants and do whatever you can to make your surroundings more colorful. I’ve heard some people describe being stuck inside as similar to being in prison. When considering that they sit in dark rooms with little light, window shades drawn, and no contact with people outside the home, I can see how it really would seem like a prison.

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Emotional

Proverbs 23:7 says, “For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.” What we think and believe about something determines how we will act. Our thoughts and feelings are the basis of our emotions and a key area in battling the wintertime blues. For many people, especially stay-at-home mothers and the elderly, winter can be a time of isolation. Just thinking about winter can bring up a lot of negative images and feelings. You may not like winter, but it is important to see that what you believe about your ability to cope with the situation makes a big difference in how you will deal with it. You have two choices in your thinking (1) Depression Thoughts or (2) Coping Thoughts. If you only focus on the depression thoughts, you will not move yourself past hating your situation to coping with the situation. If you find yourself isolated, lonely, or depressed, refocus your attention on ways to deal with the situation. I call these thoughts “coping thoughts” because they will help you find ways to deal with your situation. For example, if you were feeling lonely, a depression thought would be, “I’m feeling lonely, I hate this. I have three more long months of winter to go. I’ll never make it.” Notice how hopeless those thoughts are and reread Proverbs 23:7, “For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.” Hopeless thinking leads to hopeless living. Let’s compare that hopeless thinking to what Jesus said in John 10:10, “…I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.” Jesus Himself confronts hopeless thinking. His plan for us is hopefulness not hopelessness.

Romans 5:2 says, “By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.” Let’s use the hope that’s found in that verse to change the hopelessness to hopefulness. A coping thought would be, “I’m feeling lonely and I don’t like it. What can I do to connect with someone else? I can make a phone call, write a letter, or visit my aunt.” Coping thoughts deal with reality and acknowledge how you feel about a situation. However, they don’t leave you stranded in the mire of depression. Philippians 4:8 gives us a guide to the things we should be thinking about, “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”

Keeping a daily journal is a good way to help you work through your thoughts and feelings. By writing down both the positive and negative things that have touched your life, you will be able to look back on your journal and see how far you’ve come. I also believe that it is important for each of us to have an accountability partner. This is a person that you can “check in” with periodically who will give you open and honest feedback about what they see in you. Bob and Randy met once a week and talked together about how things were going for them. One day during their lunch meeting Bob asked Randy about some things that he had observed in Randy over the last few weeks. “Randy, how are you doing? I mean really doing. I’ve noticed that you don’t have your usual energy and that you’ve stopped doing some things you’ve always enjoyed like coming to the Bible study group. Are you feeling all right?” Randy responded, “Bob, I don’t know what’s going on. I feel depressed and I can’t put my finger on why that would be. Things at work are fine and nothing terrible has happened, but I just can’t seem to shake the blues.” Over the next several weeks Bob checked in with Randy more often than usual. Randy said later, “Knowing I could talk to Bob about how I was doing made a huge difference to me because I knew that I wasn’t alone in my struggle.” Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 says, “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.”

While some people find it easy to talk to others about what is going on in their lives, some find it very difficult. Galatians 6:2 says, “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” When we read a verse like this, we tend to want to be the burden bearers, but not the burden sharers. How can I bear your burden if I don’t even know that you have one? Often there is a misconception that people who struggle are weak or aren’t as close to God as they should be. First of all, each of us struggles at times and no one is exempt from being touched by difficulties in life. Second, as 2 Corinthians 1:4–5 says, “Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble, by the comfort wherewith we ourselves are comforted of God. For as the sufferings of Christ abound in us, so our consolation also aboundeth by Christ.” God can use our struggle for a testimony of His grace in our lives. Be on the lookout for people who are going through difficult times and come along side of them. By helping others in their time of need the Scripture promises that we will be taken care of in our time of need.

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Relational

God created us as relational beings. His desire to have a personal relationship with us underscores how important relationships are to God. Overcoming isolation seems to be a key factor in dealing with the wintertime blues and depression in general. As you read this next section, take an inventory of your relationships to see where you need to expand your focus. When commenting on relationships, Howard Hendricks said that we all need a Paul, Barnabas, and a Timothy. In this section each of these three men from the Bible will represent a different kind of relationship. [PAUL] We each need a mentor who can teach us by example and by their life experiences. Paul encouraged Timothy to keep the faith and then told him how he had dealt with circumstances in him life. [BARNABAS] We each need someone who we can relate to because of similar interests, life stage, or personalities. Diane was a young mother with two small children. Weekly, Diane and Cheryl (also a mother with young children) got together to eat lunch and spend some time together. When their schedules were too hectic for them to meet for lunch, they always made sure to call each other and update the other on how things were going. This way they could share tips on how to deal with the children as well as share personal matters. [TIMOTHY] We each need a younger person who we can teach. The older teaching the younger is a common theme that runs throughout the Scripture (Titus 2:3–4). This could be someone new to your church, a child from your Sunday school class, or someone from a mission or community agency. Showing ongoing interest in someone not only meets that person’s needs for instruction, attention, and companionship, but also allows you to share God’s love with others.

Couples need to make sure that they create a balance for meeting both spouses’ relational needs. After a hard day at work a husband may need some time to be alone and recharge. Wives need time alone without the children as well as time with adult company. It is important for husbands to monitor their wives’ feelings of isolation year around, but especially in the dark winter months. Couples should also set aside at least one “date night” per month. This is time for the couple to spend alone together without interruption: no children, friends, or family, just time for the couple to be together alone. Finding time for date nights is difficult especially for couples with young children at home. Look for couples who could benefit from having a night out alone and offer to baby-sit their children. It’s a ministry opportunity for you and a gift that goes beyond a dollar value to a busy and stressed couple.

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Spiritual

While I’ve saved the spiritual area until last, in many ways it’s most important because it ties the other areas together. Most importantly this area deals with maintaining a personal relationship with Christ. Having a daily Scripture reading and time for prayer is good advice all year long, but is especially important to keep up if you’re feeling down. Surround yourself in a Christ-centered environment. Post encouraging Bible verses on your refrigerator, car dashboard, bathroom mirror, or other places you pass by often. Take time to memorize Scripture verses that can help you during times you feel blue or are facing temptation. Christian music playing in the background can help to focus your mind back to spiritual things. When you’re feeling blue it’s much easier to feel like staying home and not going to church. While there are times, such as when you are ill, that you should stay home, you should normally push yourself to get out of the house and to church. Not only can you be fed by hearing the Word of God, but also you can encourage others and be encouraged by others.

Having a Bible reading accountability partner is another good way to keep growing in your spiritual walk and encourage another person at the same time. After you finish reading your daily devotion, call up your Bible reading partner and discuss what both of you have read. Talking with another person about what you’re reading can motivate you to read daily and at the same time connects you with another person that who you can share with and learn from. Also, think of ways to spiritually encourage others. This could be sending notes, seeking out relationships (with new Christians or those with whom you’re sharing the Gospel), visiting the elderly, or checking in with your neighbors. Finding ways to encourage others not only helps them fight the wintertime blues, but helps you fight the battle too.

Action Points

In conclusion, remember that experiencing the wintertime blues is relatively common. If you or someone you know is experiencing symptoms of depression for 2 weeks or more, contact your physician or Christian counselor. Anyone who is experiencing thoughts of suicide or death should see a counselor as soon as possible. Depression is a common and treatable problem Fighting the wintertime blues takes a multifaceted strategy. By identifying both your strengths and weaknesses in the four areas Biological, Emotional, Relational, and Spiritual, you can find specific ways to beat the wintertime blues.

Ted Witzig, Jr., Ph.D.


1 Terman, M. (1993). Light treatment. In Kryger, M.H., Roth, T., Dement, W.C. (eds.). Principles and Practice of Sleep Medicine, 2nd Edition, W.B. Sauders, Philadelphia, p. 1012.


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